I found out my best friend had been sleeping with my wife behind my back. And the worst part? I forgave him. I even wrote a song about it with him. But years later, when the band fell apart and…

I found out my best friend had been sleeping with my wife behind my back. And the worst part? I forgave him. I even wrote a song about it with him. But years later, when the band fell apart and...

John Phillips walked into Denny Doherty’s bedroom and stopped cold. His wife, Michelle, was sitting on Denny’s bed in her nightgown, popping candies into Denny’s mouth. The three of them were bandmates in The Mamas and the Papas, one of the biggest groups in the world. And Denny was supposed to be John’s friend.

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Somehow, John forgave them. He even co-wrote a song with Denny about the betrayal, a track called “I Saw Her Again. ” But the damage was already done. Denny had crossed a line he could never uncross, and the secret affair would haunt him for the rest of his life.

Denny Doherty grew up in Halifax, Nova Scotia, the youngest child in his family. He started performing at fifteen with a band called The Hipsters, then moved on to a folk trio called The Colonials. That group caught the attention of Columbia Records, changed its name to Halifax 3, and recorded two albums with a minor hit. Denny thought he’d made it.

He had no idea how much further he was about to go. In 1963, Halifax 3 crossed paths with another band called Big 3. Through them, Denny met Cass Elliot, a loud, warm, larger-than-life singer who would become one of his closest friends. Around the same time, he met John Phillips and John’s wife, Michelle.

When Halifax 3 fell apart in Hollywood, Denny and his bandmate Zal Yanovsky were completely broke. Cass convinced her manager to take them in, and they formed a rock and roll band called The Mugwumps. That group lasted just one album before splitting. Zal went on to join The Lovin’ Spoonful, while Denny joined John and Michelle in their band, The New Journeymen.

Soon they added Cass, and The Mamas and the Papas were born. John Phillips never fully supported Cass’s place in the group. He thought her voice sat too low and worried her weight would hurt the band’s image. The tension was thick from the very beginning.

After a successful audition for Dunhill Records, the group signed a contract to record two albums a year for five years. But John still wanted Cass out. It came down to a vote. Denny voted against his friend John, as did the label’s Lou Adler and John’s own wife, Michelle.

Cass stayed. Their first single, “California Dreamin’,” featured Denny on lead vocals. He had no idea what it would become. The song eventually topped Billboard’s year-end survey for 1966, and their debut album, If You Can Believe Your Eyes and Ears, became a massive hit.

The world wanted more. But behind the sweet harmonies, the band was tearing itself apart. Denny began a secret affair with Michelle Phillips. She wasn’t just a bandmate—she was the wife of a man Denny considered a friend.

The two carried on behind both John’s and Cass’s backs. But there was a fourth side to this mess. Cass Elliot had feelings for Denny, feelings she kept close to her chest. When Cass found out about Denny and Michelle, she was furious.

She confronted Michelle directly. “You could have any man you want,” she said. “Why would you take mine? ”

As it turned out, Michelle had also been seeing Gene Clark of The Byrds.

That revelation surfaced while the group was recording their second album. John couldn’t forgive that one. He fired Michelle from the band, shocking Denny and Cass. Fans reacted badly, and she returned within a few months.

Now Denny had to work every day with the woman he’d had an affair with and the friend he’d betrayed. The band dealt with the stress the way most musicians did in those days. On their East Coast tour, all four members went on stage high, drunk, or tripping—sometimes all three at once. Denny was still emotionally wrecked over Michelle.

While John and Lou Adler organized the Monterey International Pop Festival, Denny escaped to the Virgin Islands to lick his wounds. He spent most of that time drinking. When he returned for the festival, he was in terrible shape. The Mamas and the Papas gave one of their worst performances ever, under-rehearsed and shaky in front of legends like Janis Joplin and Jimi Hendrix.

Things only got worse in the UK. John insulted Cass, and she finally had enough. She walked away from the band. In February 1968, it was official.

The Mamas and the Papas called it quits. Michelle moved into acting. Cass rebranded herself as Mama Cass and released a successful solo album. John followed with his own album in 1970.

Denny released his solo record, What You Gonna Do, in 1971, with both Michelle and Cass lending their voices. Even after everything, Cass still carried a torch for him. In a last-ditch effort, she proposed. Denny turned her down.

He later admitted, “She weighed 300 lb and I wasn’t enough of a man to get past that. ”

Cass may have told herself Denny just wasn’t ready for marriage. But he was ready—just not for her. On October 2, 1971, Denny married Linda Woodward, one of the background singers on his album.

They later had a daughter. The marriage broke Cass’s heart. Her heart wasn’t in good shape to begin with. On July 29, 1974, after a 24-hour partying spree in London, Cass Elliot died in her sleep of a heart attack.

Denny was devastated. At the funeral, John and Michelle Phillips were there to console him. Shortly after, John called Denny with a strange offer. He’d teamed up with Andy Warhol to write a musical called Man on the Moon, and they wanted Denny to play an evil doctor.

John was also set to star, but before the show even opened, he was pulled from the cast. Denny had to replace him. The hype was enormous, and Denny had to deliver. Opening night was a disaster.

Critics ravaged the performance, and the show ran for only two nights. In 1978, Denny and Linda split. That same year, he married a teacher named Janette. This was the marriage that stuck.

With a supportive wife beside him, Denny was ready for a new chapter. In 1982, John Phillips reached out about recreating The Mamas and the Papas. They replaced Michelle with John’s daughter, Mackenzie, and Cass with Elaine “Spanky” McFarlane. The first performances received great reviews, but the band stopped when they realized they weren’t making money.

They regrouped in 1985 for a world tour that went better. Then John and Mackenzie started using narcotics and drinking heavily, and the performances fell apart. On a couple of occasions, audiences booed them off stage. It was a flashback to everything Denny had survived.

He wasn’t going through it again. In 1987, he walked away. After that, Denny produced a play called Dream a Little Dream, billed as the nearly true story of The Mamas and the Papas. It didn’t hide the scandals.

He then spent eight years voicing the Canadian children’s series Theodore Tugboat. His life was finally on a positive path. Then it came to a crashing halt. Denny and Janette had a daughter and a son together.

Their marriage lasted twenty years, until Janette was diagnosed with ovarian cancer. She died in 1998. It was another painful loss in a life full of them. It seemed like a good time to go home.

In 1999, Denny performed in the CBC series Pit Pony, a show about miners in Nova Scotia, the province where he grew up. Around late 2006, Michelle Phillips heard he was having surgery and came to visit. She said their time together was friendly, like most of their time together since the band broke up. The surgery was for an abdominal aortic aneurysm.

He survived, but with one setback: kidney failure. It didn’t stop him from working. He appeared as an FBI agent in the season 7 finale of Trailer Park Boys, the beloved Canadian mockumentary series. Sadly, he never got to see it air.

On January 19, 2007, Denny Doherty died in his home in Mississauga, Canada. No cause of death was given, but most believed it was the result of his kidney failure. He was laid to rest at the Gates of Heaven Cemetery near his birthplace in Nova Scotia. Michelle Phillips attended both his funeral and his burial.

In 2010, Paul Ledoux released Here I Am: Denny Doherty and The Mamas & the Papas, a first-person documentary using parts of Denny’s off-Broadway show and newly found recordings. It also featured an interview with the band’s last remaining member: Michelle Phillips. And it was Michelle who finally solved the mystery that had haunted Denny’s legacy for decades. Back in 1967, Cass Elliot had given birth to a healthy baby girl named Owen.

She refused to name the father, and rumors swirled that Denny Doherty was the man. After a decade of investigation, Michelle revealed the truth. The father of Cass’s daughter was guitarist Chuck Day, who had played with The Mamas and Papas on tracks like “California Dreamin’.

The rumor that had followed Denny to the grave was finally put to rest.